Change?

Defining change in my opinion: Change is the process of making yourself a better person for the future.

Dictionary definition of change: to become different

I think everyone has to change; you can't stay the same for the rest of your life. Ex. You can't stay a kid forever; you have to grow into an adult. Jason thinks people shouldn't change. wth? I need to change myself. He doesn't want to change, but he will one of these days. It's part of life. The average person doesn't realize when they're changing; they just do as time goes by. If you’re slowly changing at a shorter pace than others then, you just have to force yourself to change.

Things I NEED to Change

• My negative emotions
• Learning how to deal with social situations
• Lose weight
• Develop more interests
• Be happy
• Meet new people
• Control my bitching

Things Jason NEED to change:

• Learning to understand how people feel
• Express his emotions more
• Control his whining
• Maturity level: Everyone will always have a kid inside of them, but there are certain time where you must not whine.

Jason thinks like this in my opinion.............

1. I'm not changing because i don't want to, I'm done
   
2. You don't love me for who i am, I'm done
3. We don't have any interests, I'm done
4. You like celebrity gossip and i love sports, it doesn't mix. I'm done
5. I can't have my fan on while I'm sleeping, hell no. I'm done
6. You're too depressed, I'm done
   
7. Your not humorous, I'm done
8. I KNOW this just won't work, I'm done
   

grrrr, things like that piss me off! I don't know what to do with him anymore. Nothing is right, nothing is perfect, but i'm not giving up hope. We've only been together for ONE month and a couple of weeks. There are many great possibilities for this relationship. I know Jason's autism affect our relationship a lot, people with autism don't seem to have much patience. Jason NEEDS patience for our relationship (add that to the list of change)